(Jay) Well, if I'm photographing someone as fine as yourself... and it is not as cool as it sounds like it would be, man. I wouldn’t have to feel self-conscious about my white skin, fat rolls and slightly pregnant-looking stomach. One of them told me to “be gentle with him.” About a month later, the deflowering happened after a late night out drinking. Jim just needed an understanding woman to nurture and could feel in control. I wouldn’t have to worry if my body was positioned the right way, or if I was moving and making the appropriate noises to show how much I was enjoying it. I’d deflower him and mold him into the boyfriend of my dreams. His bar buddies (“BBs”) were glad he’d finally found someone, looking at our entwined hands with meaningful looks and slapping Jim on the back.He works in the stockroom at Smart Tech, an electronics store.

Still others may have never so much as held hands with someone who wasn’t a family member.

but because he’s never managed to actually penetrate a woman, he’s still obsessed with “childish” things.

Meanwhile, we live in a culture that glorifies male sexual conquests even as it pathologizes male sexuality.

and we thought it would be fun, you know, to go to this show.

And I was just obsessing about it and I was like: "Man, I'm gonna make one of those." So Saturday I went out and I got, like, a dozen eggs...